I would love to understand the other side of the coin but at some point, it cannot be tapped. There is no use crying over spilled milk but some stains are too messy to be overlooked. Mistakes can be forgiven. Things could be let go. But it would take place if someone would take heart and own up to the offense. Damage has been done but should damage be furthered? This is pointless and it might seem stupid at a point. However, the lesson has not been learned and it MUST be learned for things not to happen again. Too much damage has been done, too many words have been said and future words would be pointless and useless if this persists.